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MARGARET

I came from the Caribbean. I was born in the Caribbean. I came here very young. And I had Marvin. When he was born, everything seemed OK. And later on, he wasn't reaching the milestones, which I thought he would have done. And I approached the health visitor and they said, ‘No problem, some kids are slower than others’.

And they started doing more investigation, like speech therapy and stuff like that. At that time, he was about four years old. Coming on to four. So all this time, I've been shunted from pillar to post not knowing what's wrong with him. And eventually, we went to Great Ormond Street. One of these doctors said that he was autistic.

It was a real struggle. It was very stressful for myself. At that time, his dad, frustrated with his problem having a child like that, is gone. So I'm a single parent then. We all have this problem. The partner is always the other way.

My son is 35. And at 35, he'd probably be a married person by now. But because he is disabled, he's still like a child. He cannot handle anything. Any correspondence, money. He can't handle that. So you're totally-- he's totally dependent on someone.

Now I was that person who did everything for him. And he's gone somewhere else. And someone else-- you're not sure the other person is doing the same thing. It's like a job for them. So they do what they can and they are off home. For the rest of his life, when I'm gone, he'll still have to have someone to be dependent on.