2. Emotional Abuse
Similarly to physical abuse, emotional abuse has many forms and is unfortunately very common. Emotional abuse of a child can be direct, at the child themselves, or indirect, occurring around the child, i.e. Parents verbally abusing each other.
Name Calling:
- Using derogatory or insulting names.
- Demeaning labels that undermine self-worth.
Threats:- Verbal intimidation to instill fear.
- Threats of physical harm or other consequences.
Yelling and Screaming:- Raising one’s voice excessively.
- Use of aggressive tone to intimidate.
Mocking and Ridicule:- Sarcasm and belittling comments.
- Making fun of someone's thoughts, feelings, or behaviours.
Constant Criticism:- Unrelenting negative feedback.
- Undermining accomplishments and abilities.
Gaslighting:- Manipulating someone to question their reality or sanity.
- Denying facts or feelings to create confusion.
Shaming and Humiliation:- Publicly or privately embarrassing someone.
- Making someone feel worthless or unlovable.
Dismissing or Ignoring:
- Invalidating someone’s feelings or experiences.
- Refusing to acknowledge their perspective or emotions.
Controlling Language:
- Using language to dominate or dictate behavior.
- Telling someone what they can or cannot do.
Emotional Blackmail:- Using guilt, fear, or obligation to manipulate.
- Threatening withdrawal of love or support.
References:
NSPCC - What is Emotional Abuse
OSCP- Emotional Abuse