In this session we are going to look at learning in terms of skills and qualities gained both from caring responsibilities and through other areas of life. Skills might be considered as an ability or expertise that can be learned through practice, while qualities might be viewed as something more inherent, a characteristic trait, but which can be nurtured and perhaps developed.
After working through this session you will have:
an understanding of the various skills that could be developed within a caring role, and how some of these are transferable to other contexts
an appreciation of personal qualities developed through a caring role
the ability to use information technology (IT) to carry out reflective activities in writing and communicating
the ability to explore and use new ways of expressing ideas.
We will start by listening to Gavin, a young adult carer transitions worker at Renfrewshire Carers Centre, talking about the skills and qualities he has noticed in the young adult carers he works with.
Gavin used some of the following key words and phrases to describe carers:
What are your thoughts about Gavin’s observations? Do you feel you have some of these skills and qualities? Are you organised, reliable, and do you handle pressure well? Are you sensitive to other people’s feelings and understand how to motivate people?
Look back at Lesley, Scott and Jade’s timelines and learning points in Session 2. Think about all their different experiences as you read through these summaries of their skills and qualities.
Looking at their timelines and learning points, are there skills and qualities you think could be added to these lists?
Are these skills and qualities that you recognise in yourself?
First we will hear from various carers about the skills and qualities they have developed from their caring roles. Then it will be your turn to think about your own skills and qualities.
Listen to Dean talking about the skills he’s gained through his many caring roles.
Clair reflects on how caring and the need to see things from the point of view of the person she is caring for means she knows how to see things from other people’s perspectives.
You have to think of the other person all the time … so you do think of the way they see things. I think it’s important for everyone to see everyone’s point of view. That’s such a vital thing in life, because if you just think of your own point of view and your own self and everything, then you don’t get other people and you don’t understand what they’re doing. You understand why someone’s doing something if you look at it from their point of view.
This ability to see things from another’s perspective is sometimes called emotional intelligence.
Anna looked after her brother through his mental ill health before he had to accept professional help, while also caring for her own children and finding her way in a new country. She is proud of being able to cope. She lists the things she is proud of achieving:
Look after someone who’s sick. Look after other children. Organising the house. Myself when I was taking my course at The Open University. Studying. It’s not easy. I’m proud of myself because I can say I’m well organised.
Janet reflects on how having to be organised and manage her time well means she is more focused. She also understands the value of patience.
I get stuff done a wee bit more quicker now … you’ve got to be more focused because if you spend too much time saying ‘I need to get such and such done’, it will never get done. So if you focus on something, then you’ll get the task done a lot quicker.
Patience. You’ve got to have patience. And you’ve got to be more laid back. Because I think if you’re not laid back, even just a wee bit, if you’re too much in a rush then everything is just wheeesht! If you’re trying to rush that other person to do something and they start shouting and bawling, then that’s it. Everything’s all gone.
Jade draws confidence from reflecting on the initiative she displayed in taking steps to gain volunteering experience.
Just thinking about it today, I’ve kinda amazed myself … I’ve not really thought about it properly until now, I’ve kinda shocked myself, just, well I have actually achieved something.
Listen again to Lesley talking through the skills she gained through caring, and thinking about how the reflection process helped her to recognise them.
Now listen to Katrina reflecting on the skills she feels she’s learned through caring for her son. She talks about learning to be patient, how to negotiate and pursuing a goal.
There are a lot of skills and qualities being talked about here. This table provides some examples for you.
|Communication, critical thinking||Emotional intelligence|
Do you recognise any of these skills and qualities in yourself?
What do you think about the skills and qualities highlighted by carers and summarised in Table 3.1?
Have you thought about the personal qualities that you possess and how you might use these? What skills and qualities have you developed through your caring experiences? What other skills do you have?
The skills we saw listed for Lesley, Scott and Jade result from all their experiences gained through education, their work and their caring roles.
Go to Activity 3.1 of your Reflection Log. Once you have completed the activity, make sure you save the document again.
This activity invites you to think about how your experiences highlight the skills and qualities you have developed.
Pick an event or a point in your timeline when you had to take action to resolve something. It could be something to do with caring, your family, your work, or practical issues like housing and money.
If you are not using your Reflection Log use this table to do the activity. Make a list of what you did and then think about what skills you used, and the qualities that you have that may have helped you. These may or may not be the same as those suggested by the carers you’ve read about in this session.
If you are doing this course as part of a group or with a mentor then you can share your answers and discuss your notes with others.
Think about the following questions and make some notes in your Reflection Log or notebook:
The aim of this session was to get you thinking about how your experiences, particularly those you have had as a carer, have helped you develop skills and qualities.
Have you been able to recognise the skills and abilities that you have developed as a carer? Do you share those highlighted by the carers in this session? Do you have other qualities that your caring role has helped you to develop?
You have now completed Session 3. You will explore these ideas further in Sessions 5 and 6 where carers explore how the skills, abilities and qualities developed in their caring role informed their learning paths and enhanced employability.
To conclude this part of the course and consolidate your learning you may like to complete the practice quiz.
The quiz provides evidence that you are achieving the following learning outcomes:
If you need a reminder about the quizzes and the criteria for getting a badge, visit How to complete the course quizzes.
This course was written by Lindsay Hewitt, Sarah Burton and Julie Robson.
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