5.3.2  When the mother isn’t interested in her baby

Some mothers do not feel good about their new babies (Figure 5.10). There can be many reasons for this. The mother may be very tired, or she may be ill or bleeding. She may not have wanted a baby, or may be worried that she cannot take care of one. As you learned in Study Session 3, she may be very depressed: signs of this are if the woman seems sad, quiet, and has no interest in anything. Also watch for other signs of abnormal behaviour which are different from her usual way of behaving.

Figure 5.10  A mother who rejects her baby may be suffering from postnatal depression.

What to do if you are concerned about a mother’s lack of interest in her baby:

• Check her carefully for signs of blood loss or infection, or a hypertensive disorder. She may be ill, rather than depressed or anxious.
• You might talk to the mother about her feelings, or you may feel it is better to leave her alone, and to watch and wait.
• If you know that she was seriously depressed after a past birth, talk to the family about giving her extra attention and support in the next few weeks. Usually this depression passes in time, but sometimes it takes a few weeks or even months, and you may need to refer her for additional assessment and treatment. If she demonstrates any of the signs of postpartum psychosis (Box 5.1), refer her urgently.
• Make sure someone in the family takes care of the new baby if the mother cannot or will not.