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I'm an atheist. I probably have been all my life, but as I grow older, I become more certain of it, and further, that religion is bad.
I won't say why I think religion is bad, but I would ask if you think it would be alright to start actively questioning other people's faiths, to see if I can make others see why I think I'm right.
Or would that make me as bad as they are?
















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Am I allowed to be angry at religion?
I'm an atheist. I probably have been all my life, but as I grow older, I become more certain of it, and further, that religion is bad.
I won't say why I think religion is bad, but I would ask if you think it would be alright to start actively questioning other people's faiths, to see if I can make others see why I think I'm right.
Or would that make me as bad as they are?
I look forward to reading your replies,
Sincerely,
Andrew J Cochran
Re: Am I allowed to be angry at religion?
Ceertainly, Andrew! Question away! We should all be properly sceptical. I think that Professor Dawkins has done us a favour by going to the trouble of making a list (in his book The God Delusion) of shockingly bad things religious people have done in the name of god.
I think though that this discussion (which we are already having on the other threads) should bear several things in mind.[LIST=1]
[*]People do not necessarily act in a way consistent with their declared beliefs
[*]They may profoundly misunderstand what it is they say they believe, that is, the actions properly justifiable from the belief system itself are not the same thing as actions allegedly based on the belief system
[*]Your own understanding both of the belief system in question and of the real motivator of the deplorable actions of professors of the beliefs, may be faulty.
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Anything that gets in the way of scientific fact, knowledge, logic and truth must be bad surely.
If I were taught that a pink panda makes the rain and grew up believing it, because after all, I'd seen it in a book or two, I might, later in life, have a fight with someone who was taught that a blue gnu makes the rain.
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what!!!?!?!?!?!
blu gnu makes snow...... i thought everyone knew that.
jedt.
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Then that is your religion, Andrew.
God's Faith can only be demonstrated by Him working through love in people who do believe in Him
Your preaching will have to be a little more powerful than this. Real faith preaching is usually demonstrated by miracles, there's no argument that can stand against God's miraculous power.
We can only know your faith (anti-God) by your fruit Andrew, and this sick society sure has plenty of evidence to show for it.
You are bad unless you get right with God Himself
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that's about as far to the right as it's possible to go... ...at least ideologically speaking
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Religion... what does that really mean? To me it is a very negative word, it brings up images of wealthy churches, 'Holy wars' and hypocritical people.
Am I religious? If that is the religion you speak of then no, no, no. I am a Christian, I do believe in one God who has saved my soul. I don't believe that 'Holy wars' are accepible. People are free to choose what they believe, just as I choose to believe in a God I cannot see, touch or prove.
However I have seen, felt and touched the things that have come out of my faith. I have seen people healed by God. I have felt comforted by his presence. I have seen things change when I prayed.
Is it stupid or rediculous to believe in these things?
Well perhaps so. But I generally feel that my life without God would be pointless and not worth living. I cannot imagine life without someone to talk to whenever I want, without the idea that I am loved by God, without the knowledge that my life is in God's hands and that no matter where he leads me he will look after me, and if I die I will go to be with the God I have spent many years getting to know.
Would you be able to change my mind and convince me that I would have a better life without God? No. I have met God and I do not wish to turn back.
Would I be angry you had tried to change my mind? No, you are right to question what I believe because it confirms in my mind what and why I believe and also allows you to gain some insight into my opinions and most importantly allows you to evaluate what and why you believe what you believe. Asking questions is good and not to be frowned upon.
Am I angry at religion? Yes I suppose I am. Angry that people's perception of church and religion does not match up to what I know it can be. Angry that so many atrocities have been carried out in the name of religion.
We are all human and all are capable of terrrible things. We are all succeptible to being changed for the worse by power and the need to be powerful. As humans we will never fully match up to what God is, we will never be able to reflect him as adequately as we should, however I don't think that we should stop trying to show the would what God is like.
An important aspect of my faith is forgiveness. Without forgiveness my faith means nothing. I forgive because I know I have been forgiven much. I forgive poeple when they hurt me. I accept the forgiveness others offer. I forgive the power grabbing leaders of churches. I forgive those who didn't have the capacity to understand and accpet other people's opinions. I forgive those who kill in the name of God.
Do I force my opinion on others? I try not to. I do feel that sharing my experiences of what God has done for me can't do anyone any harm. They have the option to listen or not listen.
Do I hold it agiainst them if they choose not to listen or choose to believe something else? No absoltuely not, the choice is not mine to make for them.
I hope that answers you question.
K
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You are not in a position to be able to forgive anyone... ...only I am
the closest you can get is acceptance
or denial
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would you take your three year old child's favourite teddy away from them?
No?...
OK but you're not three... ...grow up
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Yes because religion is humanistic.
can you be angry at God...i have been once or twice then i repent...
God is not religion..God is sovereign... ultimately you need to address God and ask for his help and forgive humans who use religion to hurt other people.
..you sound bitter to me.
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Jesus got pretty angry at religion. Questioned other people's faiths too (though their actions most of all). Maybe, though, you should be carefull of focusing too much on the things people think, when behavoir is just as much a part of what people believe.
Like your humility ('to see if I can can make others see why I think I'm right'. :-)
Tim
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Why destroy if one cannot substitute something better?
My suggestion would be to promote tolerance and ecumenicism, but pointing out the virtues of other religious ideologies.
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This would be fine if each religion followed the rule of 'live and let live' but those outside their folds are considered 'heathens' by some, or 'less enlightened' by others.
Once you're a member of any fold it's 'do as we do' - or 'get in the line-up' or 'sit at our feet and serve us - perhaps one day you might be good enough to rise higher'.
Religion is parasitic; if a good one did exist it would have to be one without hierarchies of power, but then it wouldn't be religion!
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Chip away at it until the sun of understanding shines through!
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some things are too dark to allow the sun of understanding to shine through
enlightenment aint no part of the religous trip
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Your anger is not the issue here.
Religion is not the issue.
Are you allowed is the issue.
Your answer lies in who allows you. So who has that executive?
Are you allowed to tell a class of infants that Father Christmas does not exist?
Choose a class in England then try again in Egypt and compare.
If you want more depth then consider the Father Christmas dilemma and who benefits from parents feeling compelled to lie to their children?
If you want to ask moral questions about good and bad then without God you're wasting your time.
Take out the judgemental element and you can throw God in the bin.
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whatif, I was with you up to this point. Why can't we talk about morality without God? If I show someone kindness, that is a good thing; if I wantonly destroy their belongings, that is a bad thing. I don't need to refer to a religious code to know these things. "Treat others as you would have them treat you" is a good moral code: I don't need to mention God in that.
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Hi Mark01
You just made yourself god. Which is valid but tricky to get others to buy into.
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As you seem to have bought into it, perhaps I'm making a good start.
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Ok Mark01 I'm up for it if you are...
...lets skip straight to the bit with the nails, some wood and a few thorns and see how we do
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Anger that is properly directed is a really good thing.
Religious indoctrination is scary to be sure and we need to intelligently fight it on every level.
But who says that religion is Biblical? The Bible says "come let us reason together" - which is a give and take, push and pull - rather than a 'conform or you're outa here'.
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Jehova's Witness?
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Not any of those. I don't attend any church.
I'm simply saying that not all anger is bad. For instance, say a person is unfairly discriminated against, they should be angry. If they positively (don't go and shoot anyone) focus that anger to address the injustice, isn't that a good thing.
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should they be angry if they are fairly discriminated against?
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There's a stupid/hilarious movie, something with Rob Sneider in it (I think), where all the white people go out of their way to be extra nice to the black guy, even when he's clearly in the wrong. He himself objects to their 'nice' discriminatory treatment.
Many white people are obviously feeling guilty for the sins of their forebears. The pedulum has swung the other way - it always does.
And many black people are keeping the negative ball rolling by constantly reminding white people of their past sins - will it ever end???
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the world is full of ignorance
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Wilberforce ended slavery by reintroducing good manners.
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i.e. morality
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morality - yes that's a better word
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Like you Andrew C, I used to be angry about religion.
I would argue it with anyone and everyone - especially those who came knocking at the door selling each of their own brands. And this is when it became clear to me - that's when I "saw the light!".
Religion to me is a product.
Each of the different faiths compete with each other for market share.
All make outrageous claims about what they can offer to you! the "consumer".
Some people are passionate consumers of it.
I'm not in the market. The product doesn't interest me.
It is clear that it doesn't interest you either.
There's no point in being angry about it - it's a waste of time.
You can be as angry "as hell" about religion, but ultimately, there's no point in being angry at an abstract concept.
Perhaps you are "angry" at those consumers?
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Not a product otherwise under legislation you could claim a refund for not being fit for purpose.
An infection that is being sneezed all over you all the time so that you can have a tolerance but when feeling low it starts to try and take you away like herpes
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Of course, you are allowed to be angry at religion!
Religion is just another ideology.
See: "Mind and Ideology" ISBN 978-0-920282-11-3
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So why are you too coy to tell us who wrote this, Xie_Ming? Is is Rajiv Ghandi, as I suspect? I looked it up, but got no hits on the ISBN. Why should we take any interest in it, or give it any credence?
What is your point anyway? Religion is an ideology? Wow! Water is wet. Ideologies are systematic worldviews. If religions are not coherent they don't count as worldviews, and if they are it doesn't make them true or useful.
You are so fond of talking in meaningless generalities. What if there were some truth in some religions?
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I agree that you can be angry but don't dismiss all that is in religious literature because there are many nuggets of truth there. Religion is the human striving for an understanding of the individual and the world. It often manifests itself in stupid and sometimes evil ways.
Only if it makes sense with our knowledge of facts can it claim our attention but the basic rule of Judaism and Christianity and I would hope Islam is 'love the lord your god with your whole mind and your neighbour as yourself' can be translated into -love goodness with your whole mind and your neighbour as yourself. This is the creed that humanists must also hold if we are to be true humanists.
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In this world, you have good people doing good things and bad people doing bad things.
It takes religion to have good people doing bad things.
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worth quoting
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weasel words
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It is not sufficient to claim atheism as a means of denying belief in a supernatural force. To me it's very simple.
God is Life and Life is God. When people constantly refer to their God they should really acknowledge Life in all its forms. What makes my hair grow, what makes the grass grow, how do the leaves on the trees know it is time to fall. None of this is down to some mistereous figure sitting in the clouds and it is nothing we two legged anthrapoids are able to explain. In fact we are as far from understanding the meaning of life as the fish off the coast of Essex are to understanding what is going on in Southend. But because our brains are too large for our physical size we dream up the most outrageous rubbish about many things. I look at the cattle in the fields and I do not see them praying. My dog is so faithful but never appears to do anything but get on with the business of surviving and doing what dogs do best.
We witness gross acts of violence carried out in the name of god and fail to adequately condemn it for what it is, utter barbarity. The human race has a long way to go before many things change for the better. I hope those who shout "god is great" and then blow themselves and others away soon wake up to their obsurdity.
Life is great and cannot be enhanced by destroying it.
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Religion exists because it serves human psychological needs.
Philosophy seeks to explain similar matters without recourse to supernatural explanations,
But is far less popular (for obvious reasons).
Any ideology uses symbols for real and imagined things.
These symbols can then be easily shuffled around and children can be indoctrinated to assume that the shuffled symbols are reality.
Those interested in these matters will want to read Ideology's Handbook.
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It's amazing how many confuse the belief in God with the belief in religion. All religions were started by people who would be found in Waco today, for the purpose of controlling all those unfortunate enough to come under their spell. As for those who believe second, third, etc hand accounts or philosophies, they are the sheep that will always be used and abused by powerful personalities. Just because religious beliefs may seem a bit backward, unlikely or insane, doesn't mean that God does not exist in it's own form.
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Those who use the term would find it instructive to define it.
Exactly what does someone in particular means when he uses the synbol "God"?
[Watch the clergy scurry away on this one!]
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first time here maybe you've stopped looking for replies......
I think the fact that you call yourself an atheist is a contradiction. Surely by labelling yourself is believing in not believing???Therefore you create a religion of your own with rules.....
I myself dislike the trappings of religion I prefer to try and live by my common sense in terms of whether i help people and be kind and generous and loving whilst balancing my personal needs, as my life is as important as others.
I think if you're feeling a strong emotion about religion, perhaps you need to look a little bit deeper inside...
I did......
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I don't call myself an atheist because I don't believe. I call myself an atheist because I know. There is no god - not one that matters on a day to day level, anyway. Which is the one that counts. One that created the universe then sat back to watch is hardly important. One that influences people's actions and thoughts is important, even if it doesn't exist. The idea (symbol?) exists.
I agree, people should live according to their own common sense. I know I do - what else can I do? There is only myself and society, and how we relate.
And finally, what should I look for, deep inside? What is there to find that will change my feelings about religion? What did you find?
This last part of your post confuses my slightly. Indeed, if you don't mind a little criticism, the whole post is a little unclear, and apologies if I have misunderstood any of it. Please enlighten me if I my reply does not match up to what you meant.
Anyway, we are straying off topic a bit. I started this to see if there was much feeling on the point of religion actually being detrimental to society, and if people should be trying to do something about it. Am I allowed to be actively against religion, or will I have to wait for it to die out on its own, which almost certainly won't be in my lifetime? Should society allow organisations with no particular moral superiority to be dictating to society? To allow them to set down "the rules" of what is allowed and isn't allowed, without asking the people it affects? That is what disgusts me slightly. Who gives them the right to tell everyone what's what? God, you say? Who, exactly is that? Can we get him on the phone and ask what his credentials are? What his motives for these decrees are? Question whether his material is perhaps out of date, and has been superceded by the law courts and arbitrators. Some will argue that the law courts are out of date, and contain much that is rediculous and anachronistic. However, society is at least able to check the provenance of each law, and decide to change it if necessary. An agreement between people, to me, is a much more sensible way to live than an agreement between people and an idea that lives in the mind. And an mixed-up, confused and unsettling idea, at that. And irritatingly, an idea created by people! How rediculous, that so many are slaves to an ancient idea! A powerful idea, granted, but still ...
Hm, perhaps I am still a little angry! ;p Frustrated is perhaps a better term.
Anyway, please keep your thoughts coming in.
I will try and get hold of a copy of Ideology's Handbook, Xie Ming. Who is the author?
Andrew J Cochran
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Andrew:
I have attempted to answer your question twice, but the response did not appear.
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Andrew:
You ask about the Ideology's Handbook author. It has been supplanted by "Mind and Ideology", out this month. Full data is available from the Library of Canada or from Bowker's Books in Print.
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Hi Andrew in response to your querying my first post. yes I agree it was a bit confused, well thats how I am I guess.
a few things i meant to say...If most people live without the need to ask the big questions, I consider myself lucky to have that ability and try not to give myself brick walls ( every wall has two sides, sorry bad imagery! ). As i get older I am changing, I am experiencing more amazing things and having darker times , my views on religion also change. I suppose I used to look down on followers of religion, now I have more feelings of respect and envy for people who have conviction and are not afraid to say so. I feel more angry with people who call themselves catholic or christian but don't ever go to church or they get their children baptised to get them into the desired school....(I am not including other faiths as I have no direct experience ).
By the end of my life I don't expect to have answered questions but I hope by exploring and by challenging as much as I can and to have lived as honestly as possible, whatever happens after will be...
Knowing that you don't know anything is a good place to start.... ( I suppose I find that quite comforting...)
The other thought I just had was the difference between my limited experience of christianity in the UK and Germany. There, it is still a community experience as it used to be, people meeting up, discussing problems within a church. The community joins in with the religious events of the year. It was something that was really a part of everyday life.
Seeing that made me realise that religion (Christianity anyway) is really messy in the UK.
Still thinking from Zo.
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Yes, Andrew, in Germany the church is very much part of the gemeinde or community identity that one has. It represents community values and social work.
The idea of finding "unity with the universe" is the aspect that one thinks of as the "religious" quest. This metaphysical thinking tends to be solitary and subjective. When popular, we get processional images, saints and gods as symbols for things affecting people's lives.
Try and get a copy of Mind and Ideology or of Ideology's Handbook. With the ISBN, a bookseller can find them for you.
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Are you allowed to be angry at religion? Yes of course you are. You are intitled to your feelings; no one can tell you or force you to feel something.
However, I would like to point out to some of the people who commented on your post that there are plenty of intelligent, scientifically minded, sensible, educated, learned, well read, calm, sane and reserved people who are religious. It is foolishness to suppose that all believers are uninformed sheep who just believe whatever they're told. I hope you encounter some and ask them to explain to you what they believe and why.
On the point of being allowed to voice your opinions, at the moment you are and it is to be hoped that that right continues. I am concerned about the introduction of the law against speaking in such a way as to incite hatred, racial, religious or otherwise. Is hatred illegal? How can hatred be proven, especially in a court of law? Also how is it possible to prove that someone else has caused a person to have hatred? Surely the hatred would need to manifest itself in physical action. ie. The provoked hater would have to act hatefully to someone; a third party. In a similar way, is anger illegal? Is your anger illegal? What would you do if it were?
I wonder what has caused your anger. What exactly are you angry about?
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round about now I start to become more aware of my anger towards those who would choose to promote the myth of a special giver coming amongst us, giving so much to his believers without expecting any return and how much this costs so many in material wealth to help maintain his story to the point where he is so big an ideology that it is impossible that he will ever go away whatever the scientific proof is.
hohoho
what happens to the ability of the little trusters to trust the trusted or even trust at all, after the trust they placed in the trusted was crushed when the trusted tricked the little trusters just so the trusted could show the little trusters what love means to the trusted and how it hurts to be loved that way.
Remember this season to love those who cared and taught you how to believe in a lie.
ho...
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I feel sad for you for being so cynical surely this world needs all the love it can get and me n Santa go back a long ways and stuff