1.2 What is essential for pleasure?

We also need to think about what young people need in order to have pleasurable sexual experiences. For example, they need to have a choice and not be forced into sex. Likewise, feeling guilty about sex is unlikely to enhance our pleasure; being stressed or anxious is also likely to have the same effect.

Activity 1.3: What is essential for pleasure?

Timing: Allow about 10 minutes to do this activity

We list below some things that can affect pleasure positively or negatively. On the scale below choose how essential you think each one is for ensuring that a young person can experience pleasure in sex.

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Discussion

A further definition of pleasure [Tip: hold Ctrl and click a link to open it in a new tab. (Hide tip)] starts:

Sexual pleasure is the physical and/or psychological satisfaction and enjoyment derived from solitary or shared erotic experiences, including thoughts, dreams and autoeroticism.

This definition continues to state that consent, safety, privacy, trust (confidence) and the ability to communicate are key factors for pleasure and for sexual health and well-being.

This and other definitions establish that sexual pleasure is diverse and sexual rights are fundamental to ensure that sexual pleasure is a positive experience.

1.1 Sex, eating and pleasure

1.3 Risk-based versus positive approaches