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Not everyone experiences grief in the same way. Whilst under-researched, there is evidence that neurodivergent people may experience grief, as well as the social practices around death and bereavement, differently from others. This is thought to be related to their neurodivergence – in the differences in how their brains process information, including the environment around them, social interactions, and their own emotions.
Death, dying and bereavement can raise many questions for children and present unfamiliar activities. This can be heightened for neurodivergent children who may seek to understand what has happened or be unsure of how to behave in such situations, and who may find these new situations unsettling or over-stimulating. Those who care for neurodivergent children may also be unsure of how to support their emotions, or be worried about their behaviour in social settings like funerals. Watch, listen or read our transcript to learn about some tips on how to support bereaved neurodivergent children in an inclusive way.
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Further information and references
If you want to find out more about how to support bereaved children or to access support, the following links may be useful: Winston’s Wish and Child Bereavement UK.
If you want to find out more about supporting bereaved neurodivergent individuals, or to access support, the following links may be useful:
- Cruse Bereavement Support’s article on neurodiversity and grief
- 2wish
- a funeral guide for neurodivergent people, produced by Co-op Funeralcare.
The content of this video and article was informed by our collaboration with DEAD GOOD Community Interest Company, founded by Katy Vigurs and Lindsey Vigurs, as part of our preliminary work on the Grieving Divergently project. DEAD GOOD are death workers and death educators, and have experience in supporting bereaved neurodivergent children and families. DEAD GOOD retains the copyright for the images used. The Grieving Divergently pilot project work has been supported by funding from the Foundation for the Sociology of Health and Illness.

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