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Kris Stutchbury Post 1

4 February 2021, 12:09 PM

Activity 1.1: Who is excluded?

Share an example of a situation in which you felt excluded. What could have been done to make you feel included? 

Daniel Trotman Post 2 in reply to 1

11 February 2021, 12:04 PM

I could remember a time when I wanted to be apart of a group but I felt excluded because I couldnt be apart because of my time schedule and the group leader didnt want me to come whenever I had the time. I think they could have still allowed me to come whenever i was free even if that means not participating heavily but that would have made me feel included.

Kris Stutchbury Post 3 in reply to 2

12 February 2021, 10:14 AM

That is a good point, Daniel. How can teachers make sure that learners feel included in their group? 

Bilkisu Aminu Post 4 in reply to 1

12 February 2021, 11:03 AM

I found myself in a gathering some years back where everyone was using a computer system and i felt left out because i could not name the parts of a computer system then, let alone use it. I think if any of them could have invited me to atleast watch the way they were operating the system it would have made if feel carried along and not out of place.

Kris Stutchbury Post 13 in reply to 4

16 February 2021, 9:58 AM

Thank you for raising this - the rate of change in technology means that it is easy to feel left-behind. I think we all need to be mindful of how we talk about IT!

KATRICIA Moses Post 5 in reply to 1

13 February 2021, 4:43 PM

1.1 Feeling excluded

As I think back on my younger years and even as an adult, I felt excluded during group work because no one is interested in my ideas as a child and an adult. Guess because I am a person I naturally keep to myself. I wasn't popular or ever was apart of a clique. This mostly happened in school and during college. During college I was a foreigner and my classmates I didn't know them really. In my primary days I just wasn't a popular child guess cause my parents struggled to make ends meet.

KATRICIA Moses Post 6 in reply to 5

13 February 2021, 5:23 PM

What could have been done to make you feel included? 


I think I could have written down my ideas on a sticky note and stick it somewhere visible that they may see later

PHENNY Oketch Post 8 in reply to 5

15 February 2021, 9:18 AM

its true because many are the times people are excluded because of their social status especially when you are considered poor.

Marinda Neethling Post 7 in reply to 1

13 February 2021, 7:19 PM

Who is excluded

I felt excluded at some stage in high school when I was chosen for the netball team but I had music class in that time slot.

I wanted to be part of that group of girls and had to work very hard to urn a place in the group.

After reading about the wave model, I think the teachers on both sides could make plans to accommodate both activities. Perhaps other girls could also benefit from teachers collaborating and leaning a bit backwards  


Ngozi Nwosu Post 38 in reply to 7

11 March 2021, 9:28 AM

Teachers should actually identify learner's interests and make deliberate efforts for the school to accommodate them on the time table. 

PHENNY Oketch Post 9 in reply to 1

15 February 2021, 9:28 AM

Feeling excluded

I felt excluded the time I joined high school and wanted to join the basket ball team. The students who were members of the team did not welcome me because they felt that I was too short to be part of the team. This made me lose interest in co-curriculum activities especially ball games. I feel that all students should be given opportunity to participate in co- curriculum of their interest and not segregated because of their physique 

Nila Oduori Post 44 in reply to 9

26 April 2021, 12:33 PM

I had the very same experience, except that had wanted to play Volleyball. The first day in the field I felt unwelcomed and no one even bothered to explain the rules of the game to me and it felt like everyone was shouting at me! That was the first and the last day I ever ventured into sports. Instead, during games time, I would hide behind classrooms with a novel instead.

Raliat Azeez Post 10 in reply to 1

15 February 2021, 4:51 PM

A time I felt excluded was when I changed my school in high school. Having no friends around and getting to a new environment usually makes me feel excluded sometime. 

Ngozi Nwosu Post 41 in reply to 10

11 March 2021, 10:24 AM

This is a challenge that can easily be resolved. One can always establish new relationship with time. 

David Ngatia Post 11 in reply to 1

15 February 2021, 5:03 PM

I felt excluded in a maths lesson in my early years of secondary school when after being absent from school due to fee problem for some days, I got the class deep into a new topic which I could not comprehend while most of the other students understood.  Luckily, the teacher took me through the topic in a remedial and I was able to catch up.

Rose Nyambura Post 27 in reply to 11

2 March 2021, 4:24 PM

Feeling excluded

You are lucky to have had such a teacher. I recall in high school i was sent home for school fees, came back after two weeks or so and found the teacher of Chemistry giving an exam. I looked at the paper and i could not comprehead a thing. I just stared at the other students write their exam and when the teacher realized i wast wrtting, he sent me out for a punishment. I really felt excluded. Do you tihnk the teacher was right? What would you have done in such a case?

David Ngatia Post 37 in reply to 27

9 March 2021, 9:16 PM

Rose, I can figure out how you felt excluded . The teacher was definitely not right in what he did. According to me, he should have inquired  on the reason for your absence and in collaboration with the school administration and your parent, try to find a  long term solution to the problem. An alternative exam should then have been  administered later  to put you at par with others.

Nila Oduori Post 43 in reply to 27

26 April 2021, 12:24 PM

This is very unfortunate, and it happens more than we care to admit. Some teachers are impatient and wouldn't want to understand and accommodate a student. They mostly rush to punish.

Kegotshabile Kula Post 12 in reply to 1

15 February 2021, 5:53 PM

I felt excluded from learning during my primary school days because my teacher was the teacher was so fast in explaining concepts and i was slow learner.

Senolina Fakapelea Post 14 in reply to 1

16 February 2021, 11:01 PM
This year is my first year in this unit with no experience at all in using the computer. I was just sitting and writing with my pen on my book while everyone in our office busy working on their computer. Wow I felt  excluded and ashamed of myself. They should have just let me sit beside a computer and teach me immediately on that very first day.

Cathrine Anyango Osaso Post 15 in reply to 1

17 February 2021, 5:24 AM

Excluded

I felt excluded one time when I was very young girl probably at the age of nine years. I had just lost my parents and within a span of one year,I learnt in three different schools.I wanted to settle in one school and meet new friends but barely before I settled, I was in another school.

I really wished that I was involved that could have been done by explaining to me the reason why I was being changed from one school to another but this was not done because the people who ware in my life then,Ware seeing me as a child.This made me felt excluded.  

Kris Stutchbury Post 20 in reply to 15

19 February 2021, 10:17 AM

Cathrine - thank you for sharing your sad story. It is a very helpful reminder to all of us that children should be treated with the same respect as adults. As the consumers of education, they have a great deal to contribute! We need to listen to them. 

Cathrine Anyango Osaso Post 29 in reply to 20

2 March 2021, 7:19 PM

Exlusion

Totally agree.Children do understand when they are involved fully.

Damola Akinola Post 36 in reply to 20

8 March 2021, 11:00 PM

Traditions also play out in affecting the mindset and belief of people as pertaining this situation.

Nyann Boodhai Post 16 in reply to 1

17 February 2021, 12:27 PM

When I think about being excluded, most of my memories are more associated with exclusion by my peers rather than from my teachers.  Having gone to a school with students from various social classes, there were times where I just could not relate to the experiences that these students talked about. I think that in addition to teachers, students are a major factor in the inclusion and exclusion of others. This can probably be due to their upbringing, but looking back I am glad that regardless of how I felt sometimes with my peers, my teachers never made me feel like I did not belong there, especially when I did not perform like the others. 

Mercy Ikua Post 17 in reply to 1

17 February 2021, 7:15 PM Edited by the author on 17 February 2021, 7:16 PM

I felt excluded when I joined 1st Form at age 13. The school I joined was a girls boarding national school near the city and we girls from all parts of the country. There was a good bunch of girls from the city. During 4 o'clock tea the day I reported to school some girls from the senior classes came to serve us tea. They asked us our names and where we were from. I noticed that every time a form one student introduced themselves the senior girls burst out laughing. I was no exception. We also laughed without knowing why. We later learnt that they were laughing at way we spoke English- our accents. Apparently it was obvious from the way we spoke that we didn't come from the city.

I think my school should have sensitized the students to the fact everyone in the school came from different social cultural backgrounds.

Sefinat Omuya Post 18 in reply to 1

17 February 2021, 8:19 PM

There was a time when I felt excluded in a mathematics class, this is because I just don't understand the teacher's explanation and when questions are asked, the teacher gets angry and as a result I was excluded from those to provide answers to questions.

The teacher should have asked to know what exactly was wrong and find a way to get me involved in solving some of the equations.

Matelita Taufa Post 19 in reply to 1

18 February 2021, 1:17 AM
I remember when I started teaching, I worked in a school where I was the youngest person, the rest of the teachers had been teaching for more than 10 years. I felt that no one wants to listen to me or even discuss any issue with me.
 I think one of the teaches could have been assigned as my mentor or they could have a social committee where they involve me and I could slowly adapt to working with older colleagues.
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Kossi Agbogan Post 21 in reply to 1

20 February 2021, 10:29 AM Edited by the author on 20 February 2021, 10:31 AM

I felt excluded the first time I came to my current offcie. I was considered too young to participate in importante meetings where big decisions are taken. I was much frustrated and lost self-confident. 

Janice Stevens Post 22 in reply to 1

21 February 2021, 6:49 AM

Feeling excluded

I felt excluded as a child entering secondary school for the first time.  I was the only student from my primary school in that class.  I was naturally shy, so it took me quite a while to make friends and become comfortable.  

We were allowed to make introductions to the class, but in hindsight as an educator I realize that in instances of initiation like these, more has to be done to engage outlier students from the beginning.  Hence, the teacher can set up a buddy system and allow some activity for meaningful conversation/engagement among new peers.

Maryam Adamu Post 23 in reply to 1

21 February 2021, 11:33 AM

I once felt excluded in class. This happened because I missed a previous class which the topic was introduced and the lecturer just came and continued from where he stopped. I feel the teacher should have revised what he did in the previous class so that people like me will be able to catch on the topic of discussion. 

Rose Nyambura Post 28 in reply to 23

2 March 2021, 4:28 PM

Feeling excluded

True Maryam, it is good practice to always review previous lesson. Genuinely some students coud have forgotten what was learnt in previous lesson and just cannot link up with incoming new learning experiences. 

Tano'a Tu'i Post 24 in reply to 1

23 February 2021, 3:07 AM

when I felt excluded

I am a matured student and I entered the university in 2014 after working in the primary schools for 17 years in the remote islands without accessing to computer. The first day I attended the computer lab in the university, the librarian (teacher) started explaining how to use eLearning in the computer and I asked the next person to help me. It was a guy from the Solomon Island. As we continued on, the librarian gave more excited activities and everyone was busy competing to complete all activities given including the Solomon guy who helped me. I raised up my hands asking the librarian to help me and she did. The third time I raised my hands up, the librarian didn't come. Definitely I felt excluded in that time thinking that the teacher didn't like me because of being a slow learner. I thought that I wasn't good enough to be at the university level. At the same time, I felt ashamed because my colleagues were smart in doing computer while I wasn't. After the class, the teacher interviewed me then she directed me to the Faculty of Science. She requested a Fijian mentor to assist me within one month. After two weeks I have learnt a lot and more skills gained. I started to participate during discussion and felt energized when I read the notes and practice more before class. 

Tebogo Gabana Post 25 in reply to 1

24 February 2021, 8:37 AM Edited by the author on 24 February 2021, 8:39 AM

there was a time i felt very much excluded because i did not have money to make a contribution on social events in my workplace. All those who were said to have contributed were called for a meeting and at he end the activity was held without attending it.I believe the organisers could have called me to make some arrangements for payments that we become one thing

Muideen Usman Post 26 in reply to 1

24 February 2021, 12:46 PM

The first time I felt excluded in my life was when I enrolled as an undergraduate student. I joined the class in 200 level and some of the lecturers were making reference to some of their discussions in hundred level, which made me to feel not carried along.


Muideen Usman Post 30 in reply to 26

3 March 2021, 9:30 AM

It was a really unfavorable experience, as a teacher I will make sure I carry every student along.

Bonno Paya Post 31 in reply to 1

3 March 2021, 1:12 PM

How I was excluded

I was not given the full  privileges of administering a content management system.  This affected my learning of the system configuration because you learn a computer system through using the features. I felt that my intelligence was undermined.  I had expected to have been given the full privileges of the system.

Muideen Usman Post 32 in reply to 1

3 March 2021, 6:38 PM

The first time I felt excluded in my life was when I enrolled as an undergraduate student. I joined the class in 200 level and some of the lecturers were making reference to some of their discussions in hundred level, which made me to feel not carried along.



Ibrahim Sule Post 33 in reply to 1

6 March 2021, 2:02 PM

I felt excluded in an activity i enrolled. There was this digital awareness workshop which i attended some years back. I was not familiar with so many things been thought which make me feel excluded. This is because it was just like i am the only person who is a digital immigrant. 

Ngozi Nwosu Post 34 in reply to 1

8 March 2021, 11:26 AM
My experience on exclusion occurred when i was in secondary school in the 70s. I was not particularly good in mathematics. I never got to grasp the concepts being explained by the teacher.
Each time the teacher entered the class,some of us went to the back and the teacher never bothered to intrude in. This went on throughout the session and some of us lost interest in the subject which invariably affected our output and definitely our life career. During these periods, i felt that the teacher should have really found a way of trying to make us understand better by giving more attention.

FLORENCE Kamonjo Post 39 in reply to 34

11 March 2021, 10:01 AM

Yes Ngozi, when the teacher ignores a student or a group he/she excludes them and this affects their learning. A teacher should nourish every learner by offering support which raises their self-esteem which in turn improves learning. 

Eudeane Stewart-Sealey Post 49 in reply to 34

18 June 2021, 7:40 PM

Ngozi I had this experience up to this day I have a phobia about mathematics.

Jenna-Louise Barkley Post 51 in reply to 49

26 June 2021, 7:08 PM

So many adults have phobias about Maths due to bad experiences from their childhoods. I clearly remember all the way back in kindergarten being whacked on the head by a teacher when I struggled to grasp a math concept. Throughout my entire schooling, Maths has been a subject that instills fear in me.

Merlin Pierre-Holder Post 52 in reply to 51

3 July 2021, 8:26 AM

i understand your pain, this type of experience does have an impact on us .

Damola Akinola Post 35 in reply to 1

8 March 2021, 10:55 PM
My final year as an undergraduate was very challenging because by then i was offering compulsory software programming courses, i would have loved that the programming class was more engaging and interactive but rather the lecturer just focused on the few that had foreknowledge of the course leaving others including i excluded   

FLORENCE Kamonjo Post 40 in reply to 35

11 March 2021, 10:04 AM

Sorry about this occurrence Damola. Surely ignoring a student excludes them and stifles learning.

Nila Oduori Post 42 in reply to 1

26 April 2021, 12:20 PM

Feeling excluded

I felt excluded when I attended my first Chinese lesson. Turned out my 1st lesson was other people's 3rd lesson. I had registered late for the class and so the rest of the class was way ahead of me. The teacher would ask questions and it seemed everyone else was able to participate except me. It took me awhile to catch up and at some point I had felt like deferring that course.

Margerly George-Joseph Post 45 in reply to 1

28 April 2021, 1:54 PM

I felt excluded when my friends go out and don't invite me. Then pictures are posted on social media and this really makes me feel a kind of way

Sasha Heerasingh Post 46 in reply to 1

1 May 2021, 1:53 PM

I could remember my years at high school when I felt excluded. I attended a prestigious school and was a low-income student.  Due to this, I was not able to participate in a lot of the trips and activities done by the school and by extension, my peers. This always made me felt left out. 

Sarah Abraham Post 47 in reply to 1

9 May 2021, 10:39 PM

Activity 1.1: Who is excluded?

I felt excluded from a game I wanted to play because I did not  live in the same neighborhood as those playing the game.

Tonny Mbughi Post 48 in reply to 1

13 May 2021, 8:51 AM

I remember when I just joined a secondary school, I was very young and had no friend.

Farrah Ceballo Post 54 in reply to 48

23 July 2021, 9:51 PM

Tonny this is very relatable.

Jenna-Louise Barkley Post 50 in reply to 1

26 June 2021, 7:04 PM

A situation where I felt excluded occurred in high school when we went on an exchange trip to France. We went to a library where we met with some education officials and I felt particularly lost in the conversation due to my limited conversational French. Our teachers were prompting us to ask questions of the officials, however, I felt scared to speak out for fear of speaking poor French. Some of my peers were able to attempt conversation but I felt my French was not as good as theirs. Afterwards, our teachers berated us for not speaking up and I felt very badly.

I felt if our teachers had prepped us better for what to expect at the meeting, we could have each prepared a few questions and felt more confident about speaking up.

Merlin Pierre-Holder Post 53 in reply to 50

3 July 2021, 8:29 AM